In the text I speak about my being a woman at the end of the patriarchy, paying attention to diverse aspects and scenarios: in the first place, my being a woman historian, who does medieval history in the present, touched by the feminine and feminist revolution, and by the relationhsip with the research group Duoda of the University of Barcelona; my being a woman and a lecturer in the present of the university, with the need, shared with other women, to be able to bring in the free sense of sexual difference to the university; and, finally, my being a mother.